Tag: JB Lynn

6 things people said to me today

This is a random post, but all of these comments amused or touched me today.

Little girl studying my purple hair: “Red and blue make purple. Does that mean you’re mad and sad?”

Friend 1: “I’m nominating you for the Pain in the Ass of the Day Award.”

Hours later from Friend 2: “You are worth waiting and fighting for.”

Neighbor 1: “Your best kept secret is that you’re actually a really nice person.”

Hours later from Neighbor 2: “I heard you’re the enforcer.”

My amazing VA: “You’re such an outdoorsy person.”

Did anyone say anything interesting to YOU today?

Magical Binder of Accomplishment

I’ve printed out the manuscript for ONE WOMAN’S JUNK in preparation to make the (hopefully) last pass of story edits.

I’ve put the pages in my big, shiny binder (after somehow massacring the job I did of three-hole-punching) and have started scribbling on them.

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((Hmmm, the photo makes it look like sand, which is fitting for a book that’s set in a beach town, but in person it’s more like gold glitter.)

This is my process…gold glitter binder, paper and purple ink.  Also hot pink Post-It notes  with random questions and the occassional index card meant to remind me of why I’m doing what I’m doing.

I’d planned on taking the lot to my favorite coffee shop to work on, but it’s been raining for hours, so I stayed home and worked at my desk, where my view could only be described as dreary.

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Also appropriate considering the book begins on a stormy night…..

Perfection? Pffffttt!!!!

I recently completed a month-long challenge to try to learn to draw.

I knew I wasn’t going to be good at it, but I figured I’d give it a try since I thought that thinking differently would be good for my brain.

I felt compelled to share my efforts daily on Instagram — like the universe was pretty much screaming, “Put it out there!” kind of compelled.

 

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I don’t know about you, but I find it difficult to “put it out there” when I know I’m going to fail. It’s uncomfortable. It’s embarrassing.

But one of the things I dislike about social media is the way people only show the best sides of themselves, so I followed the calling and put 30 days worth of sketches out there.

I’d love to tell you that I became a great artist. That didn’t happen and I don’t know that any amount of practice could help me become one. My brain just doesn’t work that way.

What did happen though, was that I became a less judgmental of myself. I found it easier to focus on the process, rather than the end result.

I’ve really used that lesson as I developed my new Psychic Consignment Mystery series. I did what “felt fun” rather than worrying about what the “shoulds” were.

I can’t wait for you to read it!  Make sure to sign up for my newsletter to find out when it comes out.

In the meantime, if you need a good laugh feel free to check out my sketches on Instagram.

 

New month, new book, new series

Last month I focused on telling you about my writing retreat. This month, I’m going to tell you about the new series I’m working on.

This new series has been in the works for a couple of years.

Yes, you read that right. YEARS.

I initially conceived of it in 2016, but it didn’t “feel right” at the time. It took me quite a while to figure out exactly what I wanted it to be about. Then it took a while to develop the characters. Finally I got to the point where I plotted out the arc of the three book series. (I’ve sketched out another three books, but there’s no guarantee I’ll ever write those.)

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So now I’m working on ONE WOMAN’S JUNK which is Book 1 in the Psychic Consignment Mystery series.

Stay tuned this month and I’ll tell you about the new method of writing I’m trying out as I write this book, how it’s coming along, and I may share a snippet or two of the manuscript.

And for those that are going to ask — Yes, I WILL continue to write more books in the Confessions of a Slightly Neurotic Hitwoman series.   🙂

 

Ideas are like wildflowers…or weeds

If something blooms, chances are I love it.  Doesn’t matter if it’s a bush, a tree, a flower, or a weed.

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While on my writing retreat in North Carolina, I got to see a lot of wildflowers (or weeds…who cares?!?) as I hiked.

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I didn’t know when they’d show up on my trail, but I delighted in every time they did.

 

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I didn’t make any effort to identify them, I just enjoyed their beauty and cheeriness.

 

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Little bursts of color reminded me of ideas and the little bursts of inspiration they provide.

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You never know what’s going to show up next!

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Solo trips…Pros and Cons

I’ve given up on having someone to travel with,  so this writing retreat was my second solo trip…though this one wasn’t technically solo, since I brought my dog.

A lot of women have told me they’d never be “brave enough” to travel alone. I tell them to connect with their inner badass and give it a try!

The big plus to traveling solo is that I get to do exactly what I want, when I want. My schedule, my interests, all the time.

So for example, I loved this view and spent a good ten minutes just standing and staring at it. It’s not exciting and isn’t on any “must see” list. I just liked it.

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The big minuses to traveling solo are safety concerns.

Taking a road trip alone with a dog provides some logistical hurdles…like I had to leave her alone in the car while I ran into places to use the restroom.

Then there are just the safety issues of being a woman traveling alone.

But by far, the most frustrating problem I faced was on the hiking trails.  I like to go off the beaten path, but that’s not the smartest idea for ANYONE hiking alone.

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If you sprain an ankle or take a tumble when you’re alone, it’s a lot easier to get back to your car if you have the help of a hiking partner.

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Plus, if something did happen, no one would miss me for days. (Especially when you consider a lot of the time I didn’t have a cell signal.)

I didn’t let this stop me, but I did move slower and more deliberately.  (And I’ll be honest, things were more complicated with the dog. More than once I ended up in a stream because I lost my balance as she tugged on the leash.)

I avoided some spots altogether if I determined the footing looked too unsafe.

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Obviously I survived, and you can too!!

Art Break!

I had three things I was intent on doing during my writing retreat.

  1. Writing all the words — On any given day I worked on at least two, sometimes four, different projects
  2. Meditating — I’ve talked about it before, but meditation is a big part of my daily routine.
  3. Spending time in nature — The hiking trails around Asheville are amazing.

 

BUT….I did take a break on a couple of days to refill my creative well but visiting the Asheville Arts District.  So much fun (and dog friendly too, so I exposed Smudge to some culture…not that I think she appreciated it, lol).

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My favorite shop there was the GREAT COSMIC HAPPY ASS CARD COMPANY.

I mean who wouldn’t love a store with a name like that and products like these?!?!

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Ingredients for a Creative Refill

As a writer, I find inspiration in many things, but being out in helps to refill my creative well in a way nothing else does.

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I spent a lot of time on my writing retreat hiking trails in the Blue Ridge Mountains.

I didn’t spend much time writing outside. I was too busy soaking up the beauty.

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The air was clean, the sky was clear, the water was cool.

(I know about the water because I MAY have slipped into a stream on more than occasion, lol.)

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